How To Let Go Of The Past, Quickly And Easily

When you hang on to the past and replay old hurts or scenarios that you regret you stay stuck.   It has the effect of conjuring up the emotions of those memories. Letting go of past hurts and regrets is the path to freedom.  Although the lessons of your past can help you make wiser decisions in the future, the negative emotions that are associated with them are what you should be working on clearing.  The lessons from the Law of Attraction teach us that whatever you focus on, with emotion expands.  So, if you are primarily conjuring up negative emotions, you will get more of the same.  Read more

Interview: Anisa Aven LOA, EFT & Relationship Expert

Listen in on this free call with Anisa Aven, LOA, EFT and Relationship expert as she shares her story and some remarkable client stories….clients who have attracted their ideal relationship or transformed the one they had already.

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How To Have Fun While Reaching Your Goals

The concept of a vision board has been around for years but many more people became familiar with it through the movie The Secret.   I have a vision board right next to my desk – it’s a cork board that hangs on the wall and it’s got a whole bunch of pictures on it which represent  my goals.  The major problem with people not being able to achieve their goals is that they don’t know what they want, or they keep changing their minds.  Read more

Recognizing Resistance – Part 2 of 3 – Resistance by Result

As I mentioned in my first article on resistance called Resistance by Default, resistance can be a complex term and most of us are likely familiar with the term ‘resistance’ with its affiliation to the Law of Attraction and it being the obstacle to the flow of good things from the Universal law. Read more

Recognizing Resistance – Part 1 of 3 – Resistance by Default

Resistance by Default

Negativity – I refer to Resistance by Default as the seemingly human default pattern of negative thoughts and self-talk. Those of us who unconsciously and consciously think and say negative things to ourselves and others. For example, “I’ll never be able to do that.” “Murphy’s Law says, ‘whatever can go wrong, will go wrong.” Those of us who wear our emotions on our sleeves by having loud emotional outbursts, creating huge resistance to happiness and bliss, fall into this first sub-category. 

Denial – Is often a default pattern, due to our past and upbringing, that subconsciously is put in place to ultimately protect us. Some of us deny by pulling off a really good outward appearance that all is well while suppressing our negativity and resistance leaving it to fester until it manifests as a physical disease or that threatens to suddenly erupt into a severe emotional explosion or implosion, like depression or physical self-sabotage. I get a visual of one stuffing a suitcase so full tat the lid has to be sat on to close. It’s just a matter of time until the clasp gives way or it gets unexpectedly opened, then ‘look out’! Negativity and resistance ca only be stuffed in there for so long before there is no more room.

Living in the Past – We often default to the past when our situation is less than desirable. Our thoughts continuously go back to another time and we fantasize of days gone by, wishing we could leave the Now, never to return. The past is important for our learning and development, so we can learn from our past mistakes and successes in order to make better decisions and choices now. It’s when we dwell on or regret the past that lowers our vibration and creates resistance, because are resisting the Now.

All of this ‘resistance’ is energy that is trapped in our body’s energy field and surfaces as destructive patterns. Anytime we focus our attention on lack, irritation, anger, sadness, etc., we are resisting the flow of the Universe and our peace and happiness. The good Lord put the Law of Attraction in place for our benefit, not for our frustration, we have just become experts at using it to attract negative things and situations. Now is the time to stop those patterns in their tracks!

Being aware of the different ways resistance shows up in our lives can help when we are ready to do something about it and fortunately, we have cutting edge techniques to release all of our blocks to success!   

Why Loving Yourself Is The Key To Change

Do you beat yourself up for not losing the weight you want to lose or for not achieving the financial goals you’ve set for yourself?  If so, you are engaging in a self defeating way of thinking.  You may think that if you don’t however, that you will loose your motivation to change.  That may be true to an extent but from a Law of Attraction stand point, you are attracting exactly what you don’t want.  The key is to love and accept yourself despite your perceived short-comings. Read more

Raising Your Vibration Is The Key To Manifesting

Are you discouraged by all the hype around the Law of Attraction? Have you been repeating your affirmations daily and still having no results from your efforts? Well, what you may not realize is that if, while repeating your affirmations, your vibration is low – then sadly – you will keep getting more of what you’ve already got. Many LOA teachers do advocate raising your vibration – getting excited about your goal and that’s effective to a point but if you then look at your life and feel dissatisfied with what you see – you will have just wasted all your attraction efforts.

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